On the morning after the United States election this year, like many people I know, I was afraid to get out of bed.
But I had had good fortune. At “Stoicon” in New York in October, I’d picked up The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living, by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman, and had begun reading a quote each morning. So, still in bed, I read the day’s entry: “All is fluid.” “The universe is change. Life is opinion.” (Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 4.3.4b)
It could hardly have been more apt. Over the coming months, I came to believe that the decisive issues in this election are also the most important issues in Stoicism.
“Life is opinion” is a vague phrase, but it had an obvious painful meaning now. The morning before, people had been visibly elated on the streets around my local polling place on the Upper West Side. I overheard a conversation in which someone said, “I can’t wait until I can ignore Donald Trump.”
For decades we New Yorkers knew him as a shady tycoon with bad taste. On my morning bike ride, I pass a row of mammoth apartment buildings he owns. When people from out of town asked me about Trump, I’d report a visit to a friend who had just moved into one of those buildings. As the elevator stopped on her floor, she was saying, “Wait until you see the view,” when we all walked out and saw a large turd in the hallway.
In my circle of opinion, Trump couldn’t win. How could so many Americans hold opinions we thought unthinkable? Because “life is opinion.” My brief life, and their brief lives. Nothing I thought certain was certain. What could I count on? “The universe is change.”
The pundits say that Americans elected Trump because he promised “change,” desirable unto itself, startling the entire world with their choice. Human beings both crave and fear change. Donald Trump has become the epitome of that ambivalence.
The Stoics teach that change in itself is neither good nor bad—yet inevitable. It isn’t wise to choose a candidate who has never held political office for the mere sake of change, but wise to make your peace with change when it comes.
If you are excited at the prospect of a Trump administration, now is not the time to gloat for the same reason “Blue State liberals” shouldn’t despise you. The wheel will turn, and turn again.
I continue to read a Meditation every day, and the habit has served me well. On November 17, Seneca: “Let philosophy scrape off your own faults, rather than be a way to rail against the faults of others.” (Moral Letters, 103, 4b-5a) No, I wasn’t allowed to rail about idiots who had elected a protofascist. November 27, Marcus Aurelius: “How satisfying it is to dismiss and block out any upsetting or foreign impression, and immediately to have peace in all things.” (Meditations, 5.2). I stopped reading news about the transition that day.
Two days later came more permission to hide from the news, if only for a time: Marcus Aurelius: “Don’t lament this and don’t get agitated.” (Meditations, 7.43.) Ryan and Stephen spoke to me like dear friends: “There’s that feeling we get when something happens: It’s all over now. All is lost. What follows are complaints and pity and misery—the impotent struggle against something that’s already occurred….[what’s coming next] could be the darkness before the dawn. If we’re Stoic, there is one thing we can be sure of: whatever happens, we’re going to be OK.”
It’s as if they knew that November 2016 would be rough for much of the country. But of course, any month can be rough, as the Stoics knew especially well.
“To read or not to read” the news became a question much discussed on Facebook and elsewhere. As some of my friends were saying (and the Stoics agree), we have a duty to be engaged citizens, to love our country. I received urgent messages from people I respect asking me to make phone calls or sign petitions demanding a recount or urge electors to change their votes.
The Stoics also teach us to avoid distractions. I chose to stay out of those protests; they seemed clearly to be ways of coping. To me, the real question was “What did the voters who chose Trump mean to tell us?”
Stoicism has much to tell us on that point. Donald Trump does not do well on Stoic measures, except for one: he scorned the approval of official approval-givers. As the song goes, he did it “My Way.” We all should note the power of that stance. (To be honest, it makes me uncomfortable. I myself believe in approval from respected sources and crave it—Stoicism is an antidote).
The public discussion focused on character, a choice the Stoics would applaud. People disliked both candidates for perceived greed and dishonesty, serious faults to Stoics. However, the outcome didn’t turn on the character of the candidates. It turned, I argue, on our sources of self-respect.
As a celebrity, our President-Elect benefited from a special kind of familiarity: people trusted him because they’d seen him for years in their homes on their television screens. Hillary Clinton was also familiar, but from the despised world of politics and policy-wonks, the “insiders.”
If the pundits are correct, voters who felt that they had been treated as “losers” and “outsiders” saw a man of fame and fortune, a “winner,” who was also paradoxically an “outsider” like themselves, declaring himself on their side.
The Stoics teach resoundingly that this logic is wrong. Fame and wealth, they say, are fleeting and worthless, victories in a war not worth winning. In any case, you can’t get respect, or self-respect, by association.
In the present moment, we hear, too many Americans and British feel like “losers” because of declining income and respect for their traditional work. So they blame immigrants. The Stoics are right here, too: they insist on the value of meaningful work. If your industry is in decline, and you can’t earn a good living or you don’t have a job, life is harder. But if you are doing what you can you are not a “loser.” You are also not an “outsider.” You are inside the circle of your own judgment and bonds to your community and loved ones.
How I wish we all felt this in our bones. Stoics don’t cuddle up to celebrities. They also don’t bathe in self-pity within bubbles.
Soon after the election, I attended a party full of people lamenting Trump’s victory. I wandered into a back room, where I found the hostess—call her Nancy–sitting alone. I’d met her only once before. She invited me to sit beside her. I asked her if she was having a good time. With a strange look on her face, she said, “Do you really want to know?”
I nodded. “I voted for Trump,” she said. “You’re the first person I’ve told.” I nodded.
“I’m so hopeful,” she said. “I think he’ll really make a difference.” She glowed like a woman in love.
The Stoics teach us to spread wisdom rather than seethe inside when we disagree. But they also teach us to be kind. Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 9.6: “All you need are these: certainty of judgment in the present moment; action for the good in the present moment; and an attitude of gratitude in the present moment for anything that comes your way”
I knew what to do. As a journalist, I’m trained to listen to people with whom I don’t agree. I was genuinely grateful for the opportunity to do what I do well. I was also grateful to be at her party, which was warm and fun. My judgement: to listen, which would build good in the present moment and express my gratitude. I kept my face welcoming and listened to her reasons for deeply admiring Donald Trump.
I did make one, indirect, attempt to teach my wisdom: I told her that my monthly health insurance cost had dropped by $100 a month when the Affordable Care Act passed, and I was scared it would go up again. She said, “Don’t worry; he’s going to make health insurance better.”
The Stoics teach us to be careful to whom we extend our friendship. I choose to keep up friendships with people despite disagreements about politics. Should you drop those friends? Should you avoid family members whose politics offend you? If the disagreement is profound, one can find quotes in the Stoic literature to make either case. But the message is clear: first, tend your own garden.
You might think, “My Dad always thought my brothers deserved more freedom and respect than I did, so he’s proud to have as his President a man who thinks it’s OK to boast about assaulting women.” Or, “My sister can’t handle debt and she blames Mexicans for our financial troubles.”
Remember Epictetus, Enchiridion, 1.1-2: “Some things are in our control, while others are not. We control our opinions, choice, desire, aversion, and, in a word, everything of our own doing. We don’t control…everything not of our own doing.”
As I read Epictetus, he would advise you to monitor your own attitudes about women and men and to let your Dad keep his. You might take more responsibility for your own finances, knowing that you may soon have to help out your sister. While we school ourselves not to fret over things we can’t control, we must also anticipate the worst. Know that calamity can come to you and act accordingly.
Taking a role in public life is also a Stoic value. I recently chose to write an op-ed that ran on the opinion page at the Wall Street Journal. I write for other conservative publications. I say what I think, and if my audience disagrees with me on other matters, that’s okay. Perhaps my words will get through. We all can choose how to best use our abilities to be useful during this political season.
The Stoics often suffered exile. That—and other influences, as well as all the talk of fleeing to Canada—inspired me to begin applying for my Canadian citizenship card (my mother was Canadian and my brother holds dual citizenship). I got only half-way through the process, during the election and then afterwards, began to worry that Canada would tighten up the rules. Next time, I will be more diligent. Stoic lesson learned.
I’ve pursued the application, which is taking some effort. Is this a good use of my time or a distraction? One could argue either case. I want to be prepared for a calamity when leaving my home becomes the best option. The Stoics embraced exile, a time to pursue philosophy. The truth is that I’m lucky; I can write anywhere. Writing is what I do best, though sometimes I am sick of it and want to be a dancer, a photographer—anything else. Love your fate, the Stoics say. Joy comes from practicing your virtues.
Our Stoic teachers insist that we can be happy in a world that feels unsafe. But I believe that a Trump administration will cause many other people to suffer more than they might have. It’s true I don’t know whether the total amount of suffering is bound to increase over the long run as a result of the recent turn of events, though it strongly seems that it will.
I asked Gregory Sadler, editor of Stoicism Today, what he thought about the question of others’ suffering. In an email, he responded that Stoics recognize that intentionally harming others or simply taking actions that make harm foreseeable is “morally wrong.” Indeed, people who act unjustly are also damaging themselves. Many people I know intuitively agree; they think that as our President, Trump will bring about his own undoing.
“Wait and see” say my most serene confidantes, my 87-year-old father and my mother’s best friend, a 70-something economist.
What will happen? No one knows.
“If the breaking day sees someone proud,
The ending day sees them brought low.
No one should put too much trust in triumph,
No one should give up hope of trials improving.
Clotho mixes one with the other and stops
Fortune from resting, spinning every fate around.”
– Seneca, Thyestes, 613
Temma Ehrenfeld is a ghostwriter and journalist in New York drawn to psychology and philosophy. Her journalism has appeared in The New York Times, Newsweek, Reuters, and Fortune and her literary work in Michigan Quarterly Review, The Hudson Review, Chicago Literary Quarterly, Catamaran Literary Reader, and Prism International. She blogs at Psychology Today and is shopping her first novel, The Wizard of Kew Gardens. See more of her work and reach her through her website.
What Would Stoics Say about the U.S. 2016 Election? by Temma Ehrenfeld
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Oh dear! One would have hoped that despite the change in site that we would continue to get articles by people who understand and practice Stoicism.
The emotional first sentence set the tone for the whole article. Where is the Stoic acceptance. For or against Trump, Trump is to be the President. That is the reality. Live with it.
Sorry to be so blunt, but trying to use Stoic quotes in order to bolster an emotional response is to miss the point. Let go of what might have been. Like those who did not want Brexit, let go of what you wanted, accept what is and get on with making the most of the situation.
If the Stoic path had been followed this article would never have been written.
I agree with Nigel. This article doesn’t belong here. This person is biased in many ways, especially religiously.
While we maintain a pretty open forum for discussion (though not entirely so, since there is some moderation) , I’m going to draw a clear line at declarations of what pieces do and don’t belong in Stoicism Today. We post a wide range of pieces here, from a diverse body of authors, not all of whom are at the same level of study or practice of Stoic philosophy.
Without aiming at defending this particular piece – since I’m not going to get bogged down in that – I’m going to affirm there is a legitimate range of differing contemporary ways of interpreting Stoicism. That is a position that the Stoicism Today project team has embodied from early on, and that’s going to continue to be the position here. I’m not going to get involved in a long discussion about that matter either but rather propose that if people want to debate that principle, they can write up a post and send it in as a submission.
For those whose main focus is determining the orthodoxy of others’ Stoicism, there’s some (but not unlimited) room for those sorts of discussions here – though there’s also plenty of other places online to post those discussions, interpretations, criticisms, etc. but those comments need to remain civil and respectful. Simply charging another person with “bias” is not respectful. Nor is attempting to engage in editorial policy-making or -advocacy in the comments section. Nor is denigrating an author for what one presumes to be a beginner status in study of Stoicism. Legitimate differences can be articulated in civil and respectful ways.
Agree with your response Gregory. One can find benefit in an so-called “biased” article, essay, or post that takes you through the PROCESS of thought about any issue, guided by Stoic principles and references. This can allow the reader to “debug” points of divergence or approve points of contention in the logic and reason that formed the article’s ultimate conclusion.
This Stoic found himself unable to vote for either of the major-party candidates this time around, but I have no doubt a Clinton victory would have driven just as many Stoics to seek solace and healing wisdom in the same maxims and dogmata you found so helpful. Thankfully, the utility of Stoic philosophy lies safely beyond the current mania for simplistic and overheated right/left rhetoric.
I do hope this is not the start of a trend on this site…
We have published a number of posts articulating a range of views about the applications of Stoic philosophy to politics, culture, and activism. Recent posts include:
Can you be a Stoic and a political activist? by Christopher Gill
Stoics Do Care about Social Justice: A Response to Irvine by Eric O. Scott
Insult Pacifism: A Reply to Eric O. Scott by William Irvine
How would the ancient Stoics have dealt with hate speech? by William Irvine
Thank you, Greg. I’m very glad to declare myself a beginner, the target audience for Ryan and Stephen’s book, and I’m grateful that Greg opened up this forum for a non-expert writing, in part, for non-experts. My goal was to do my best to spread the word about Stoicism in a “teachable” moment.
Thank you Temma for writing this post. I can relate as someone who recently discovered Stoicism and is still processing the election of Trump.
Thank you, pascale4554!